Don't Ask, Don't Tell

Happy new year everyone!

I’m so excited to be writing my first blog in 2011. The joy of witnessing this year is overwhelming for me. Along the way, we have lost numbers of love ones - families and friends - to illness and death in 2010. They’re gone, but definitely not forgotten in our memories. So my friends, I’m so thankful and grateful to Almighty God for your lives and mine. It is my prayer that this new year brings you love and bountiful opportunities.

So far, January has been a bit disappointing for me. That being said, I owe some of you apologies for my words, but not for my silence. One f the reasons of me being silent was to see if some of you would realize your mistakes. Now remember this “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” - it’s my new approach to life.

I should mention that in this life, we’re all in the same struggle; define by the same goal and the same aspirations for life. Life screws us all and one must not pretend about it. If you have anything to complain about, let me know before hands and i will take steps to address it. If you seat down somewhere and Judge me without knowing the core issues, I leave you to the judgement of the Most High.

Lately, I must admit that I’ve let my anger get the best of me. Recently, certain individuals labelled me as RUDE AND ARROGANT. Being someone else is not what I would like to be - that’s not what I see of my myself. I want to be me - the Sunky ya’ll know prior to the new year -and continue to be a better person beyond 2011.

I want to use this medium to say thank you to those that have shown me love - by inviting me to family gatherings, birthday dinners and more. There’s no greater appreciation than the feeling of such love. I hope to celebrate many more of it with you all in the near future. And to those that have opened their door for me, thank you so much for the warm receptions. The memories we shared together is one that I’ll continue to cherish. Family isn't about who you are associated with by blood, it’s about who you care about. I see each of my friends as my family member; those I had spent most of my childhood with, and those that I now know at this stage of my life. I surely care about ya’ll. If I’m doing anything wrong, please call me and talk to me. By doing that, I would recognized and appreciated your courage, because that’s what friends do.

Thanks for reading

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